Chapter 6 – The Secret to Relationships

Make room to receive your desires, and as you do, you are sending of that powerful signal of expectation.


  • Inside relationships it’s important to first understand who is coming into the relationship, and not just your partner. You need to understand yourself first.

James Ray

  • How can you expect anyone else to enjoy your company if you don’t enjoy your own company? And so again, the law of attraction or the secret is about bringing that into your life. You have got to get really, really clear. Here is the question I would ask you to consider: do you treat yourself the way you want other people to treat you?

When you don’t treat yourself the way you want others to treat you, you can never change the way things are.

You must begin to treat yourself with love and respect, and Amit the signal and get on the frequency. Then the law attractions will move the entire universe, and your life will be full of people who love and respect you.

Many people have sacrificed themselves for others, thinking when the sacrifice themselves they are being a good person. Wrong exclamatory mark to sacrifice yourself can only come from thoughts of absolute lack, because it is saying, inverted, that is not enough for everyone, so I will go without it inverter, over those feelings don’t feel good and will eventually lead to resentment. There is abundance for everybody and it is each person‘s responsibility to summon their own desire. You cannot someone for another person because you cannot think and feel for another. your job is you, when you make feeling good a priority that magnificent frequency will radiate and touch everyone close to you.

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  • You become the solution for you. Don’t point to another person and say, “now you O me and you need to give me more.” Instead give more to yourself. Take time off to give to yourself, and in a sense to fill yourself up to fullness, to wear now you can overflow in giving.

To acquire love seeing yourself up with it until you become of magnet.

Many of us were taught to put ourselves last, and as consequence we attracted feelings of being unworthy and undeserving. As those feelings lodged within us, we continued to attract more life situations that had us feel more unworthy and not enough. You must change that thinking.

Unless you fill yourself up first, you have nothing to give anybody. Therefore it is imperative that you tend to you first. Attend to your joy fast. People are responsible for their own joy when you tend to your joy and do what makes you feel good, you are a joy to be around and you are a shining example to every child every person in your life.

When you feel bad about yourself, you are blocking all the love and all the God that the universe has for you.

In relationships we are so used to complaining about other people. For instance, “my co-workers are so lazy, my husband makes me so mad, my children are so difficult. “ it’s always focusing on the other person. But for relationships to really work, we need to focus on what we appreciate about the other person, not what we are complaining about. When we are complaining about those things we are only getting more of those things.

Even if you are having a really hard time in relationship things aren’t working. You are not getting along, someone is in your face you still can’t turn that relationships around. Take a piece of paper, and for the next 30 days sit down and write all things that you appreciate about that person. Think about all the persons that you love them. You appreciate their sense of humour, you appreciate how supportive they are. And what you will find it that when you focus on appreciating and acknowledging their strengths, that’s what you will get more off, and the problem will fade away.

All your joy is on the frequency of love the highest and the most powerful frequency of all. You can’t hold love in your hand. You can only seen it in your heart. It is a state of being. You can see evidence of love being expressed through people, but love is feeling, and you are the only one that can read it and Emit that feeling of love. Your ability to generate feelings of love is unlimited, and when you love you are in complete and utter harmony with the universe. Love is everything you can. Love everyone you can. Focus only on things you love, feel love, and you will experience that love and joy coming back to you – multiplied exclamatory mark the law of attraction is must send you back more things to love. As you radiate love, it will appear as though the entire universe is doing everything for you, moving every joyful thing to you, and moving every good persons to you. In truth, it is.

Secret summaries

  • When you want to attract a relationship, make sure your thoughts, words, actions, and surroundings don’t contradict your desires.
  • Your job is you. Unless you fill yourself up first, you have nothing to give anybody.
  • Treat yourself with love and respect, and you will attract people who show you love and respect. When you feel bad about yourself, you block the law and instead you attract more people and situations that will continue to make you feel bad about you.
  • Focus on the qualities you love about yourself and laugh attractions will show you more great things about you.
  • To make a relation Work, focus on what you appreciate about the other person, and not your complaints. When you focus on the strains, you will get more of them.
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